How to stop being intimidating
It’s not a secret that one of the biggest obstacles that men have when it comes to approaching and meeting women is the fact that so many of them are simply intimidated by hot girls.When a man hears that these girls are just like all the other women, and that there is no reason to be intimidated by them, he might believe that, it feels much easier said than done.
Basically, you would have to make the first step and be a bit more bold in your approach so others can see you for how you are.
As cynical as it might sound, once you have actual experience meeting a woman who is both very attractive very interesting, your first thoughts will be not “wow, she is so hot I probably don’t have what it takes to talk to her, let alone get her interested in me”, but “she is so hot, so she is probably really lame, ditzy, neurotic, shallow, flaky… maybe there is a small chance she isn’t, so I will give it a shot.” It doesn’t take long to look around and notice how many very attractive women date and have relationships with guys who are physically and otherwise mediocre.
Many of those guys are overweight, have no style, and many don’t have much to show for themselves as far as education and career go.
Similarly, I introduced myself and asked a bit about her and her work. When I shared that he does come across as a little aloof he was surprised as it is the opposite of his intention.
A friend of a friend of mine who appears standoffish confided in me one night at drinks he is shy and loves it when people interact with him. Well here is one universal truth, well put by Eleanor Roosevelt, "No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." And I don't need to meet you to know that there is nothing inferior about you, my friend.
That argument alone will not eliminate his deeply rooted fear of approaching and meeting those women.